Author: Lark

Mary Gertrude Rumping

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My paternal great grandmother, Mary Gertrude Rumping, was born March 3, 1878 in St. Louis, Missouri – the daughter of Eva Frances Specht and John Henry Rumping.  One year later, in order to join her father who had earlier arrived in Montana Territory, Eva and one-year-old Mary made a 3-month boat trip from St. Louis, Missouri to Fort Benton, Montana Territory – followed by another 160-mile stage trip from Fort Benton to Belmont, near present-day Marysville.

The details of Mary’s life are more completely detailed in her journal entries, personal papers and photographs, but here is a short outline of the major events in her life:

  • 1891 (age 12 or 13)  – Mary made her First Holy Communion while visiting her mother’s hometown of North Vernon, Indiana
  • 1893 (age 14) – Mary’s mother Eva filed for divorce against her father, John
  • 1895 (age 17)  – Mary graduated from high school in May and by the fall, she had obtained a teacher’s certificate
  • August 1900 (age 22)  – Mary married George Schenk
  • 1901 to 1910 (age 23 to age 32) – Mary and George had four children
  • March 1909 (age 31)  – After a long drawn-out legal battle, Mary’s parents were finally divorced
  • July 1912 (age 34) – Mary’s mother Eva died
  • February 1914 (age 35) – Mary and George had a fifth child, Valentine
  • April 1915 (age 37) – Valentine died
  • October 1915 (age 37) – George Schenk died at age 38
  • November 1916 (age 38) – Mary married Albert Schaffer
  • January 1921 (age 42)  – Mary had a son who was either stillborn or died the same day
  • December 1921 (age 43) – Mary’s father John died in Bisbee, Arizona
  • June 1934 (age 56) – Mary’s 2nd husband Albert died
  • February 1945 (age 67) – Mary married Eugene Riordan and moved to Kansas
  • July 1945 (age 68) – Eugene died in an auto accident and Mary moved back to Marysville, Montana
  • November 1952 (age 74) – Mary died in Helena, Montana

Mary’s children

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                                                      Irene, Georgie, Pete and Evelyn Schenk

Mary and George Schenk had five children:

Georgiana “Georgie” Frances Schenk, born in 1901 (2nd from left).  Mary sometimes referred to her as “Fran” in her journal, especially when she became an adult.  Fran married Cid Dalin in 1921 and lived in Helena, Montana.  They had four children and she died in 1966.

Christopher “Pete” Schenk, born in 1903 (2nd from right).  Mary sometimes referred to him as “Chris”.  He married Helen Smigaj in 1934 and they lived for a time in Marysville.  Eventually they moved to Bonners Ferry, Idaho.  They had two children and Pete died in 1960.

Irene Mary Schenk, born in 1906 (far left).  Irene married John Weber and lived in Butte, Montana.  They had one daughter.  Irene died in 1985.

Evelyn Kate Schenk, born in 1910 (far right).  Evelyn was married for a short time to Fred Marks and then married William Butner.  As an adult, she lived in Missouri and then in California.  She died in 1997.

 

                                                           Valentine Dora Schenk circa 1914

Valentine Dora Schenk, born February 14, 1914.  She died a little over a year later on April 2, 1915.

 

Mary’s siblings

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                                                    John and Willie Rumping circa 1898

John (on the left in this photo) was born in 1881.  William (“Willie”) (on the right) was born two years later in 1883.  The date on the back of this photo is stated to be 1898 so John would be  about 17 and Willie is about 15.

         Maud and Mary Rumping [date unknown, but probably about 1895]
Mary’s younger sister, Maud, was born in 1884.  She is on the left in this photo and Mary is on the right.  The date of this photo is unknown but Mary does refer to herself on the back as “Miss Mary Rumping” – so the date must be prior to her marriage to George, which was in 1899.

Kiss Me, Stupid!

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So let me set the stage.
George is 19 and Mary is 18.  Apparently they’ve already passed a few notes back and forth and have been caught on at least one occasion by Mary’s mother, who disapproves.  Nevertheless, things are clearly heating up between the two of them.

Feb 9 1897

Dear Mary,

I see you are going to write.  Just the same, so am I.  But if your Mother gets a holt of another note, she may go hard with us and then what.  So don’t let her know it at all.

Well Mary, when you were up here the other night you came in the front door and I did not know you were in the house at all.  So when your Mother came, she ask me if you was here yet and I said no.  So I told her to go in to the other room and she saw your muff or hat on the bed and she said Mary is here.  So I said I didn’t see her come in, she must of come in the front door.  Maybe she thought I knowed you were here.

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